Show interest in what he feels is important in life.ġ5. Focus on what he’s doing right, instead of continually focusing on the negatives.ġ4. When you go out on a date together don’t bring up problems. Try not to make sudden major changes without discussion. Foster an atmosphere of laughter in your home. When confronting him, realize he has feelings also.ġ0. It’s important to protect his dignity on a daily basis.ĩ. Either show interest in his hobbies or allow him space to participate freely. Make sure you tell him you love him AND that you like him.ħ. We all have annoying habits and preferences that are different from our spouse’s. Show interest in his friends, giving him some time with them (if they’re trust-worthy.)ĥ. Plus, purposefully try to listen to his feelings-even when you disagree with him.Ĥ. Let him know in big and small ways that he’s important to you.ģ. Just share it with him.) SUGGESTIONS on How to Show Love to Your Husband:Ģ. It is titled, 100 Ways to Show Love to Your Wife HER Way. (ALSO… there’s a list in the “Romantic Ideas” topic, which gives husbands 100 ideas. But look at them as ways to bless and romance your husband. Don’t feel pressured that you have to use all of them. Your relationship can be greatly strengthened as you use the suggestions.īut keep in mind that these are ONLY SUGGESTIONS. Use this list as a basis for learning his views. He can then point out the ones that are most importance to him. Have him check the most meaningful suggestions listed below. Plus, make sure you do this at a time when he is not preoccupied with something else.)Īnd then discuss this list with your husband. (Make sure you do this when you are alone together. And then make up a copy to share it with your husband. So, to begin, we encourage and challenge you to look over the list below. It will reveal what MOST speaks love to your husband. But is it TRULY the way that he best feels loved? That’s what this challenge is all about. So, we have a challenge for you! You may feel you do a good job of showing your husband that he is loved. Find out what romance means to him or her? It may surprise you! But if you do your homework you will become the master of what really turns your spouse on!” (Debi Walter, from The Romantic Vineyard) Show Your Husband Love His Way, Rather Than What Makes Sense to You “This is a great truth that once practiced is sure to produce lasting fruit. The wife is simply not romancing her husband in a way that is romantic to him! Are the recipients ungrateful and self-absorbed? No. What is wrong? Are the gestures extended not romantic or thoughtful? No. He didn’t feel the love in the same way it was given. That is because it wasn’t romantic to him. The wife may make many romantic gestures, which go unnoticed by her husband. “A husband considers romance to be one way and the wife considers it to be another. And it may be true for your husband, as well: Have you asked your husband about this lately? We’re asking you these questions because we’ve found the following to be true. Does your husband feel you love him? And does he feel romanced by you? Are you sure? Both are important to you and to him.
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